Little Things

I was told by a psychology professor that after two years of being with someone the butterfly feelings disappear. So you no longer have that feeling of being "In Love" with the person. My thoughts are simple, the "In Love" feeling is nothing more than your bodies hormonal response to another person and that real love is putting forth the dedication to making it work through the good and the bad. I have also come to find that the "In Love" hormones do come back from time to time, just by doing little things to surprise the other person. Sometimes my husband brings me flowers just because and sometimes I make him breakfast in bed just because. The butterflies can comeback as long as the two in the relationship make it a point to be spontaneous.